Born in Germany and now a proud Nebraskan, Alexa Allen is a military brat, socialite, “Downton Abbey” enthusiast and fierce friend.<\/p>\n
Although Allen is only 21 years old, she has already lived an adventurous life, living in three different countries across the world. Allen now resides as a communications major at Wesleyan University in Lincoln, Nebraska.<\/p>\n
Upon our meeting and within the first few days of living in England, Allen revealed her infectious and envious socialite abilities, something she attributes to moving around the country as a military brat.<\/p>\n
Emily Wotzka (EW): You\u2019ve had quite an interesting life so far. Tell me about being born in Germany and your childhood as a military brat. <\/strong><\/p>\n
Alexa Allen (AA)<\/strong>: Right, military life. Well, you have just asked me about my favorite topic ever, so good for you.<\/p>\n
So within the military, there are the Army, the Navy, the Marines and the Air Force branches, and my dad was in the Army.<\/p>\n
So growing up I lived in five different places. First, it was Germany, then Wisconsin, Colorado, Georgia, Kansas and then I moved to Nebraska to go to school.<\/p>\n
For the military, that\u2019s actually not a lot of moving around. Usually, people move around a lot more. That was mainly because my dad had a lot of deployments, and, although this was sad, it was good because we didn\u2019t have to move as much.<\/p>\n
EW: How did it feel having to move around every few years? <\/strong><\/p>\n
AA:<\/strong> It was definitely rough. Every year we had new neighbors. Everyone was new at school. Practically every year, everyone would rotate.<\/p>\n
In a way, it was really great because it forced me to become really social and helped me to make a lot of friends really fast. But now looking at it, I\u2019m definitely not good at keeping long-term relationships because I\u2019m so used to having a friend, thinking they\u2019re going to be around for two years and then I\u2019m going to move and probably never talk to them again. And that\u2019s just how I grew up.<\/p>\n
EW: Did the constant moving around inspire you to move abroad during college? <\/strong><\/p>\n
AA:<\/strong> It\u2019s definitely made me not afraid to go to new places. When I came to college it was not a big deal, but it was just another move. I chose to study abroad because I had always done moves with my family, and I just needed to just do something on my own and just be my own person in a way.<\/p>\n
I did it more to find my independence. Coming to college, I was never homesick, never depressed or sad; you know, the stages that people normally go through. I never had that.<\/p>\n
Looking at it now, I really needed study abroad to be homesick and be sad, because I think everyone needs that.<\/p>\n
EW: Did you experience culture shock both going to England and coming back to America? <\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n
AA:<\/strong> Going there, yes. For the first three weeks, I was really fine. I definitely had that honeymoon phase, and I was just wowed by everything. And then after that, the culture shock set in and it took me a long time to get out of it.<\/p>\n
It was very tough at times. I think it had a lot to do with my personality. I realized that I\u2019m a homebody, and I just like to have my own space. That\u2019s what makes me feel content.<\/p>\n
I just felt like I didn\u2019t have a home; I was in this tiny little room. Coming back, I didn\u2019t feel any reverse culture shock at all.<\/p>\n
EW: Did you have any out of body experiences during your time abroad? <\/strong><\/p>\n
AA: <\/strong>Yes. When my mom came to visit we got to go to Highclere Castle where they filmed “Downton Abbey,” and that was honestly the best day of my life.<\/p>\n
Every time I talk about it, I just want to cry. I cannot express to you how incredible it was to be there and get a full tour of the castle.<\/p>\n
No matter how hard this trip (study abroad) was, this day made the entire study abroad experience worth it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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