I’ve recently seen multiple posts about peers who are happy they skipped the party phase while in college or put others down for going out and having a good time. I never skipped the party phase, and I’m glad I didn’t. In fact I’m still in the so called “party phase,” and I’m glad I am.

Just because I like to go out and have a good time doesn’t mean I’m irresponsible or an alcoholic. The amount of new people I meet in one night out is incredible and this has actually helped me in advancing my career and academics.

You can sit at home and watch Netflix or do your homework. That is your choice, but why do you have to waste your time bringing others down for doing what they love? Being able to let loose and enjoy yourself is important to a healthy life. Being a social person actually helps to improve mental and physical health.

Again, you can choose to stay in on a Friday night, but here is what you missed out on. A wonderful and engaging conversation with the random girl that was drunk and felt like sharing her life story. Witnessing a nice guy bring his friend water because he can’t quite speak without slurring. A new group of friends you become close with. Memories that will easily outlast the memories of Netflix and a couch on a night in. And most importantly, you miss the experience of creating bonds with people over the simplest of similarities.

Yet again I say, you can choose to stay in every weekend. But going to a party doesn’t mean you need to drink to have a good time. We are young and ambitious people. Connecting with other young and ambitious people is extremely important when growing up.

You aren’t going to remember the time you spent alone in your bedroom scrolling through all of your friends’ snap stories. You are going to remember the time you spent doing wild things with them.

So no, I am not upset that I participate in the party phase. I am rather pleased with the social life I have built and the way it has positively affected my life as a whole.